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Saturday, March 28, 2009

What Men Really Mean??

Girls, this advice is for you who are tired of your guys wondering eye. First off, I must tell you, that a lot of your men do not even know that they are checking out other girls, while with you. Men have girls’ hardwired into their brain, and they too, are easily distracted. Like a dog that notices a cat or cat that chases the mouse, men usually do what is instinctual for them.

So here are a few tips for you to keep their attention focused more on you, and the "short mini skirt" walking by.

First you must know that this is an on going investment to keep him focused. A man needs to know that you care about them. Instead of hitting them up with your hectic day first or what ever else is on your mind, engage him about his day. Ask and listen to what he has to say.

Then you have his full attention for him to listen to you and what is on your mind. The next piece of advice, feed on their manhood. They are admittedly simple and love to be teased by you about sex. It does not have to be a pole dance; just a few teasing words and actions on a regular basis will make him think of you more often in excitement when you both are not together. So give him a few things to think about when he is away at work or out hanging with friends.

When you catch him looking in ways he shouldn’t, don’t let him know that it bothers you. There is nothing bigger of an ego booster to a man than knowing his woman is jealous. If a man thinks that it bothers you to look at the girl walking by, he may even do it more just to feed off it. If he happens to not change after all of this, give him a taste of his own medicine. This will always make them think twice, and will finally know how it feels.

A simple yet easy to understand by everyone...

What Men Really Mean :

  • "It's a guy thing."

-Really means...."There is no rational thought pattern connected with it, and you have no chance at all of making it logical."

  • "Can I help with dinner?"

-Really means...."Why isn't it already on the table?"

  • "Uh huh," "Sure, honey," or "Yes, dear."

-Really means....Absolutely nothing. It's a conditioned response.

  • "It would take too long to explain."

-Really means..."I have no idea how it works.

  • "We're going to be late."

-Really means...."Now I have a legitimate excuse to drive like a maniac."

  • "Take a break, honey, you're working too hard."

-Really means...."I can't hear the game over the vacuum cleaner."

  • "That's interesting, dear."

-Really means...."Are you still talking?"
  • "It's a really good movie."

-Really means...."It's got guns, knives, fast cars, and beautiful women."
  • "That's women's work."

-Really means...."It's difficult, dirty, and thankless."

Now that's the real meaning!!~


  1. vert true. hope u girls don't find the remaining keywords too. anyway nice post.

  2. anyway, how do i display my name for comments?

  3. Anonymous : 10x. Anyway, inorder to display your name for comments, choose 'OpenID' & type your name, then you may proceed with your comments in the comment box. Cheers!!~

  4. Hehe...you and Durai competing ah...who can kutuk more : )

  5. Hi Nithz,

    Got this in my email...taught about how you would like reading it...not sure if you have posted this before...here it goes:

    If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;

    If u Don't , he says u are PROUD .

    If u DRESS Nicely , he says u are trying to LURE him;

    If u Don't , he says u are from VILLAGE .

    If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN ;

    If u keep QUIET , he says u have no BRAINS .

    If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;

    If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT .

    If u don't L ove him, he tries to POSSESS u;

    If u Love him! , he will try to LEAVE u.

    If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;

    If u do !! He says u are CHEAP.

    If u tell him your PROBLEM , he says u are TROUBLESOME;

    If u don't , he says that u don't TRUST him.

    If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;

    If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.

    If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;

    If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.

    If u SMOKE , u are BAD girl;

    If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.

    If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK ;

    If he does WELL , it's BRAINS.

    If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;

    If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!! & sooo hard to please!!!!!

  6. Durai : Wei la wa.. :)

    Veni : Kutuking? Definitely!! Anyway, i have read the email 4years back. You wont believe that, i printed it out & kept a copy of it in my personal file at home. Hahahaha :p

  7. ha ha ha..ka dashyat la.. VERY TRUE.. anubavam pesutha?? :D